Have you tried affirmations? But give up after a day or so because you feel silly?
Say you’re trying to attract a lover and you repeat over and over, “I’m a beautiful, confident and sexy, people are naturally drawn to me, I’m full of positive energy, and people notice me when I walk into the room.”
All the while you can’t help but think, “Yeah right, no one has looked at me in over ten years, I’m 2 stone overweight, my boobs are migrating south, and I need significant hair removal!”
All an exaggeration of course, but that’s how you feel.
So your affirmations are taking you nowhere. They make you feel worse because your thoughts are automatically tuned in to contradict your statements. And you’re trying to convince yourself of something that seems so far removed from your current circumstances.
Try afformations instead.
An afformation is voiced in the form of a question whereby your mind will automatically set about to answering it.
Here’s example of how to use afformations to attract a lover.
“Why am I so sexy? Why am I so attractive? Why are people drawn to me? Why am I so positive and confident all of the time?”
And to get comfortable with a new condition in your life…
“Why do I feel so comfortable with so much positive attention? Why is it so natural for me to experience many wonderful opportunities to meet new people?”
And to consider all possibilities…
“What are the infinite possibilities of meeting a new lover? Today? What are the infinite ways in which I could meet a new lover?”
And, having fun…
“Why am I so smoking hot? Why am I a sex magnet? Why do I ooze sexiness?”
And to provoke even better or unimagined possibilities…
“How can it get better than this? What else is possible?”
Be as repetitive as you like and make it fun… you want to feel a connection with your words. Remember to state them in the present tense because you want to feel the change now, not tomorrow. Tomorrow is always tomorrow, and never today.
I use afformations mostly on money, health and relationships. I immediately feel better as they raise my positive vibration and after a while I notice my behaviours changing to answer the questions.
So, give it go!